Love's Rejoinder

A heartfelt poem by J. B. Selkirk about the mystery of love and why our deepest feelings cannot always be explained.

Have you ever tried to explain why you love someone? You may think of their kindness, their smile, or the happiness they bring into your life. Yet sometimes the love we feel goes beyond anything we can put into words.

In Love's Rejoinder, J. B. Selkirk reminds us that love is as natural as rivers flowing and birds singing. We do not need to understand every reason behind it to appreciate its beauty. As you read this poem, think about the people you love and the special place they hold in your heart. Sometimes the simplest answer to why we love someone is that we just do.

Why do I love you? Why do rivers run? J. B. Selkirk

Updated October 14, 2026, by Catherine Pulsifer.

Love's Rejoinder

Poet: J. B. Selkirk

Why do I love you? Why do rivers run?
Why does the north wind rage, the south wind sigh?
Why loves the earth to bask beneath the sun?
These follow but their nature, so do I.

How do the flowers love every flower its season?
Why loves the far-off hill its opal mist?
The birds sing out their love, but give no reason
It is enough for these that they exist.

As comes in spring the murmur of the dove,
As song of lark that cleaves the summer sky,
My heart so sings, so clings to thee, my love,
And I can give no better reason why.

It is not for your beauty, nor for pleasure.
Your matchless form, nor yet your balanced mind;
For each of these is but an earthly measure
For that which leaves earth's measures all behind.

Love, life, and death are of the things that come
Without our will, our effort, or our art;
In their unbidden presence man is dumb,
For these are masters never man could thwart.

What do we know of love? - its why, or whence?
We only know it flashes from the gloom
Of things outside our sanction or our sense;
And when it does we stand beside our doom.

Under the rich man's roof, or poor man's rafter.
When love has entered in, for ill or well.
That moment stamps itself on man's hereafter,
Whatever name he gives it - heaven or hell.

For though it cannot be but love's first seed
Should fall on earthly soil, and earth must handsel it,
Transplanted into man's immortal creed,
Time may defy eternity to cancel it.

And though love lies concealed in blinding light
That baffles reason, mocks the poet's prayer
For power to tell its infinite depth and height.
Content, we still can breathe its blessed air.

Let it suffice for you and me, that each
Heart knows its secret, loves it not less well.
Because it lies too deep, too dear for speech -
It would be less than love if we could tell.

Key Reflections In This Poem

  • Love does not always need a reason.

    Just as rivers flow and birds sing, love can come naturally. We may not be able to explain why we love someone, but that does not make our feelings any less real.

  • Love is more than outward beauty.

    The poet reminds us that genuine love goes beyond appearance or personal qualities. It is a connection that cannot always be measured or explained.

  • Love can change our lives.

    When love enters our hearts, it can influence our choices, memories, and future. Some relationships leave an impression that stays with us for many years.

  • Love is sometimes beyond words.

    We may struggle to describe our deepest feelings, yet we know they are there. The poet reminds us that love does not become less meaningful simply because we cannot explain it.


Conclusion

Love's Rejoinder reminds us that we do not always need an explanation for the love we feel. We may admire someone's kindness, appreciate their companionship, or treasure the happiness they bring, but sometimes our feelings go much deeper than any reason we can give.

J. B. Selkirk's poem encourages us to appreciate love rather than spend too much time trying to explain it. When we are fortunate enough to have someone special in our lives, we should never take that love for granted. May these verses remind you to cherish the people you love and let them know how much they mean to you.