Because, A Love Poem

A heartfelt poem by Adelaide Anne Procter that reflects on human love as a precious gift from God.

Why do we love someone? Is it because of the happiness they bring into our lives, the way they make the world seem brighter, or the comfort we find when they are near? These may all be reasons to treasure someone, but in Because, Adelaide Anne Procter takes us deeper into the meaning of love.

Through her beautiful verses, Procter reminds us that true love is more than the feelings and happiness we experience today. She sees human love as a gift from God, something that teaches us to trust, brings peace to the heart, and reminds us of a love that is even greater than our own.

This poem gives us a wonderful thought to reflect upon. When we recognize love as a blessing rather than something to take for granted, we begin to appreciate not only the person we love, but also the One from whom that love comes.

I take you as a gift that God has given And I love you!

Updated September 30, 2026, by Catherine Pulsifer.

Because

Poet: Adelaide Anne Procter

It is not because your heart is mine - mine only -
Mine alone;
It is not because you chose me, weak and lonely,
For your own;
Not because the earth is fairer, and the skies
Spread above you
Are more radiant for the shining of your eyes
That I love you!

It is not because the world's perplexed meaning
Grows more clear;
And the Parapets of Heaven, with angels leaning,
Seem more near;
And Nature sings of praise with all her voices
Since yours spoke,
Since within my silent heart, that now rejoices,
Love awoke!

Nay, not even because your hand holds heart and life;
At your will
Soothing, hushing all its discord, making strife
Calm and still;
Teaching Trust to fold her wings, nor ever roam
From her nest;
Teaching Love that her securest, safest home
Must be Rest.

But because this human Love, though true and sweet
Yours and mine
Has been sent by Love more tender, more complete,
More divine;
That it leads our hearts to rest at last in Heaven,
Far above you;
Do I take you as a gift that God has given
And I love you!

Key Reflections In This Poem

  • True Love Goes Deeper Than Circumstances

    The poet recognizes that love is not simply based on beauty, happiness, or what another person brings into our lives. True love reaches deeper and values the person rather than only the benefits that come from loving them.

  • Love Can Bring Peace And Trust

    Procter describes love as something that can quiet the heart and teach us to trust. When love provides security and understanding, it can become a place of comfort and rest through life's changing circumstances.

  • Human Love Reflects A Greater Love

    The poem reminds us that even the deepest human love comes from a love that is greater and more complete. Procter sees the person she loves as a gift from God and their relationship as something that ultimately points toward Heaven.


Conclusion

Because reminds us that there can be something much deeper behind the words, "I love you." Love is not only about what another person does for us or how happy they make us feel. It is also about recognizing the blessing of having that person in our life and appreciating the love we have been given.

Adelaide Anne Procter's final thought is especially meaningful. She sees human love as a gift from God and as a reflection of His greater love. May this poem remind us to cherish those we love, to be thankful for the love we receive, and never to take such a precious gift for granted.