Tell Her So

It is easy to assume that the people we love know how much they mean to us. But sometimes the simple words, "I love you," or "I appreciate you," are exactly what they need to hear.

The poem Tell Her So by A. J. Perrault reminds husbands not to take their wives for granted. Whether you have been married for a few years or have shared a lifetime together, words of love and appreciation still matter.

Let this poem be a reminder to tell your wife how much she means to you. Show her through your words and actions that she is loved, valued, and appreciated. Don't wait for a special occasion. Tell her today.

 Every day with you is a gift, and I cherish and love you more than words can ever say.

Updated September 7, 2026, by Catherine Pulsifer.

Tell Her So

Poet: A. J. Perrault

Amid the cares of married life,
In spite of toil and business strife,
If you value your sweet wife,
Tell her so!

Prove to her you don't forget
The bond to which the seal is set;
She's of life's sweets the sweetest yet-
Tell her so!

When days are dark and deeply blue,
She has her troubles, same as you;
Show her that your love is true
Tell her so!
There was a time you thought it bliss
To get the favor of one kiss;
A dozen now won't come amiss
Tell her so!

Your love for her is no mistake
You feel it, dreaming or awake
Don't conceal it. For her sake,
Tell her so!

Don't act, if she has passed her prime,
As though to please her were a crime;
If ever you loved her, now's the time
Tell her so!

She'll return, for each caress,
A hundredfold of tenderness!
Hearts like hers were made to bless
Tell her so!

You are hers and hers alone;
Well you know she's all your own.
Don't wait to "carve it on a stone"
Tell her so!

Never let her heart grow cold
Richer beauties will unfold;
She is worth her weight in gold!
Tell her so!

Key Message from this poem:

  • Don’t Keep Love Silent

    Love needs to be heard, not just felt. The poem reminds us to tell our wives how much we love and value them. A simple "I love you" can mean the world.

  • Love Is Shown in Words and Actions

    True love isn’t just about what you feel; it’s about what you show. The poem encourages us to back up our feelings with kind words and caring gestures, even when life gets tough.

  • Treasure Your Relationship Daily

    The poem gently reminds us not to take our spouses for granted. No matter how busy or how much time has passed, make it a habit to nurture the love and bond you share. It’s worth every effort.