Farewell! But When Roses

Saying farewell to someone you love is difficult. The poet, Mary C. Ryan, reminds us of the memories that we will always have.

"Goodbyes can sting, but love leaves memories that time cannot take away."

Updated February 25, 2026, by Catherine Pulsifer.

A farewell can feel final, yet the heart often holds on to what mattered most. In this poem, Mary C. Ryan shows how love does not simply disappear when people part. Scent, twilight, and even winter ice become reminders of what was shared. The speaker is honest about sorrow, regret, and the ache of being forgotten. But there is also a quiet request that is easy to understand. Remember me when gentle moments return, and keep one small place in your thoughts for the love that was real.

Farewell! But When Roses

Poet: Mary C. Ryan

Farewell! but when roses shed their perfume o'er thee,
At twilight's sweet hour, sacred to love.
Search thy memory's dark vaults, for remembrance of me,
And find the charms, which thy bright eyes wove;
And then if thou canst, oh, dispel that strange power
Which has doomed me their captive to be!
For afar from those orbs, a faithful sunflower,
My poor heart will be turning to thee.

Though the fountain of love, which is sparkling so bright,
In the glance of your dark hazel eyes;
Will be frozen and still, far away from that light,
In the gloom of life's sorrowful days.
But beauties of sunbeams are gorgeously revealed,
In the ice on a bleak winter's day;
So love's silvery sprays, by thy cold frown congealed,
Vanished hopes and bright smiles will display.

I leave thee, but sad thoughts, like the frost on the rose,
Will cling to my heart's innermost fold;
For soon in the dim, shadowy past must repose,
Love's soft pinions of crimson and gold.
Too fondly I have loved thee; I cannot forget
The fleet arrows that wounded my heart,
Though hope's bloom is shed, in my bosom lives regret.
And time brings no balm for true love's smart.

Then farewell! but remember my love can not die,
Linked to life, a flow'r to its stem;
Though rejected and scorned, in my bosom 'twill lie,
A heart's devotion, life's priceless gem,
When thy smiles and affections another has won,
And hope's rainbow is seen through your tears.
E'en then in thy memory keep a green spot for one
Who so truly has loved you for years.

Key Messages in this poem:

  • Farewells hurt, especially when love is still strong.

    The poem shows that parting does not erase what the heart feels.

  • Memories can return through simple moments.

    Roses, twilight, and quiet seasons become reminders of a past love.

  • Rejection does not stop devotion.

    The speaker admits the pain, yet the love remains steady and true.

  • Time does not always heal the deepest love.

    The poem reminds us that some wounds stay tender because the love was sincere.

  • Even one kind remembrance can matter.

    The closing message asks for a small place in memory, not a grand promise.


Conclusion

This poem reminds us that a goodbye is not only an ending. It is also a moment that reveals what the heart values most. When love has been true, memories can feel like both comfort and sorrow. If you are facing a farewell today, be gentle with yourself. Hold on to the good that was shared, and let those memories guide you forward, one day at a time.

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"Sometimes the kindest goodbye is a promise to remember the good, even when the heart feels heavy."