The poem “My Regrets To The Man Who Gives Up” by David V. Bush offers a powerful reminder that even when life feels difficult, giving up is never the answer.
Giving up is not the end of the road, it is only a pause. Those who rise again often find strength they never knew they had.
Updated March 25, 2026, by Catherine Pulsifer.
David V. Bush speaks directly to the person who feels tired, discouraged, or ready to walk away. His words are not harsh. They are filled with concern and compassion. He understands that life brings setbacks. We all face moments when the struggle feels heavy. Yet he gently reminds us that giving up often happens just before a breakthrough.
The poem teaches that failure is not the true defeat. The true loss comes when we stop trying. Many who succeed have stumbled more than once. They rise again, not because it is easy, but because they choose not to surrender their dreams.
These verses encourage us to look at our mistakes as lessons, our delays as preparation, and our disappointments as stepping stones toward something better. Read the full poem below, then take a moment to reflect on the messages that follow.
My regrets from a heart of compassion and pain,
If you've fled from the fray and will not try again.
For the road's just as broad, just as smooth, just as bright
In the beckoning future, if only you'll fight.
The men who have climbed to the uttermost peak
Are the men who have failed, but have scorned to be weak;
If you quit in the fight ere it draws to its end.
You've my deepest regrets — and the hope you'll amend!
My regrets to the man who has reached middle life.
And who ceases to dream or to plan for the strife;
Who thinks that for him there's no honor or fame,
And has lost his old zest for the combat and game.
Though once he had started to conquer or die,
He now gives it up and no longer will try;
I'm sorry for him, but I'm sorrier still
For the loved ones depending upon his dead will.
My regrets to the man who deserts in the fray
When there's heaviest danger of losing the day;
Perhaps when he quits, the worst fighting is done.
And a brief moment longer would show he had won.
More than one hapless fighter has pummeled his foe
Almost down to the mat, then too early let go;
He may have already come through the main round,
Yet he staggers off beaten — his wreath on the ground!
My regrets to the man without vision of youth,
Who has turned a deaf ear to the promptings of truth;
Who thinks it too late to strive on toward the goal
That once he had set with a vigorous soul;
Who quits on the turnpike of struggle and pain,
And ceases to win as he deems it all vain.
But in parting I mention a thing that is true —
It is never too late for a come-back — for YOU!
I’ve gone thru fire and water;
I’ve smelt the fumes of hell;
I've seen the flames of terror
I know their ways too well.
My back has oft been broken;
Bruised many times my shin,
But by the living God, I swear,
That I am bound to win!
I’ve stood alone, deserted;
I've sweat great drops of blood;
I've seen the waves of failure
Roll o’er me in a flood.
I’ve felt the throbs of error;
Cried out, “I'll sink or swim!”
But by the living God, I swear,
I’ll try again and win!
I’ve tramped the trails of sorrow;
I've waded streams of grief;
And from the tree Misfortune,
I've stripped its every leaf.
I’ve scaled the Mount Temptation;
I've drank the dregs of sin.
But by the living God, I swear,
I'll try this time and win!
Sometimes the win is closer than you think.
Falling down can build strength if you get back up.
A comeback can happen at any age.
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These poems remind us that quitting often comes just before a turning point. David V. Bush speaks with honesty and compassion, showing that failure is not something to fear, but something to learn from. Life will bring setbacks, doubt, and moments when giving up feels easier than pressing on. Yet these verses encourage us to keep trying, to believe that effort still matters, and to remember that it is never too late to begin again. Let these poems be a quiet reminder that perseverance can change the outcome, and that hope is still possible when we choose not to quit.
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