What So Wild As Words Are

Words matter. We may not always notice their weight in the moment, but they can shape a day, a friendship, or a home. The words we speak can build up, or they can leave a mark that lasts longer than we intended.

There is no mileage in being the one who casts stones onto others in spite of whether they deserve it or not. To those who fling sour, sounding, and hurtful words, be very careful because what and how you say something may come back twofold onto you.

Take for example the supervisor who is so exasperated with an employee that they blow up and castigate them personally rather than try to positively criticize for an aspect of performed work. And, even more devastating to the person who receives this tongue lashing is if that same supervisor does so in front of other employees. Not only does this form of outlandish behavior affect the individual in receipt of such verbiage, but it also undermines the confidence and trust of those who are in earshot of hearing, and paints the supervisor as harsh rather than helpful.

A thoughtful, caring and empathetic leader is much more effective in the long run when they choose phrases, words, and even body language to make their point with deliberate care. And, for those who think people in senior or authoritative positions can do as they please and treat you verbally as they please, they are to be faulted every time.

Words are powerful. They can encourage and support, or they can tear down and destroy. They can strengthen a relationship or cause lasting hurt. Once unkind words are spoken, we cannot take them back.

The secret to all relationships whether that is with a spouse, a child, or a friend or colleague is to think clearly and thoughtfully before you speak. Ask yourself a simple question before you utter any words: how would you like to be addressed in a similar situation or circumstance?

Let this poem by Wilhelmina Stitch remind you of the importance of choosing your words carefully. As was just stated, think before you speak!

Be silent now for love's sweet sake, for all the beauty of the past. Wilhelmina Stitch

Updated October 20, 2026, by Catherine Pulsifer.

What So Wild As Words Are

Poet: Wilhelmina Stitch

There's naught so wild as words that rise on temper's hot, uneven breath;
And, taking love by swift surprise, strike deep, like spears intent on death.
There's naught as wild as words that flow from lips that watch not what they say.
Oh, foolish Two, you surely know that love is scarce an inch away!

Those wild, wild, words, they cannot break the precious link that binds you fast.
Be silent now for love's sweet sake, for all the beauty of the past.
Be silent, though you suffer grief fearing that love has really fled.
When all is well - ah! what relief you breathed no word you wish unsaid.

There's naught so wild as words that spring from jealousy or injured pride,
From some unreined imaging - then may calm wisdom be the guide
And place up our lips a seal until the bitter mood departs
And joy's gay laughter comes to heal, and peace brings balm to two sore hearts.

Key Reflections In This Poem

Words Can Cause Lasting Hurt. Words spoken in anger can damage even the strongest relationships. Taking a moment to think before speaking can prevent regret.
Silence Can Be a Sign of Wisdom. We do not always need to respond when emotions are running high. Sometimes remaining quiet gives us time to calm down and see things differently.
Love Is Worth Protecting. Disagreements are part of every relationship, but harsh words can make them worse. Remembering the love we share can help us respond with kindness.
Choose Peace Over Pride. Jealousy and hurt feelings can lead us to say things we do not mean. Letting go of pride and choosing understanding can help restore peace.

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Conclusion

This poem reminds us that words can rush out when we feel hurt, jealous, or proud. In those moments, silence can be a gift we give to love. When we pause, we protect what matters most, and we leave room for calm to return.

If you are in a tense moment today, take a breath before you answer. Choose words that heal, not words that haunt. Later, you will be glad you guarded your tongue and kept peace close.

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