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Have you ever noticed how one person's laughter can brighten a room, while another person's complaints can change the mood just as quickly? The way we speak, act, and respond to life often affects those around us more than we realize.
In this positive thought, Catherine Pulsifer encourages us to consider the kind of influence we have on others. Along with the poem Love And Laughter, her message reminds us that a sense of humor and a positive outlook can make everyday life more enjoyable.
Updated October 19, 2026, by Catherine Pulsifer.
Which Type Are You?
Author: Catherine Pulsifer
We are all infectious.
What matters is what type of
infectious person we are.
Have you ever noticed that some people's laughter is infectious? When they laugh, you find yourself laughing too. Children often seem to laugh so easily, while adults can become so caught up in daily responsibilities that they forget to enjoy a good laugh. As e. e. cummings wrote, "The most wasted of all days is one without laughter."
A Valuable Asset
One of your most valuable assets is a good sense of humor. People who can find something to smile about are often enjoyable to be around, and humor can help us approach stressful moments with a lighter heart.
Norman Cousins described laughter as a kind of internal exercise, but he also recognized its ability to create a mood in which other positive emotions can flourish. A little laughter may not solve every problem, but it can help us face a difficult situation with a different attitude.
A Positive Outlook
There are people whose positive outlook on life seems to lift your spirits whenever you talk with them. Others are so enthusiastic and motivated that they encourage the people around them to do their best. Their attitude can help make a difficult day feel a little easier.
On the other hand, constant complaining, negativity, and cynicism can bring down the mood of those nearby. Henry Ward Beecher compared a person without a sense of humor to a wagon without springs, jolted by every pebble in the road. It is a reminder that humor can help us handle life's small frustrations.
Bob Newhart observed that laughter can give us some distance from an event, allowing us to deal with it and move on. When we can step back and see a situation from another perspective, we may find that it no longer feels quite so overwhelming.
To Summarize
When you stop and think about the kind of person you are, do you consider yourself positive or negative? Happy or sad? Enthusiastic or quick to complain? Someone who finds humor in life, or someone who lets every little problem spoil the day?
We all influence the people around us. You know what it feels like to walk into a room filled with tension. You also know how welcoming it can feel to enter a room where people are relaxed, smiling, and pleasant.
Think about the attitude you bring into a room. Are you the type of person others enjoy being around? And, perhaps most importantly, which type of infectious person are you?
The following poem offers another perspective on the way happiness, laughter, and sadness can influence our relationships with others.
Solitude
Poet: Ella Wheeler Wilcox
Laugh, and the world laughs with you;
Weep, and you weep alone:
This grand old earth must borrow its mirth;
It has troubles enough of its own.
Sing, and the hills will answer;
Sigh, it is lost on the air:
The echoes bound to a joyful sound,
Read the entire poem, Solitude Poem
Key Reflections In This Thought And Poem
- Our attitudes affect others.
The way we respond to life's challenges can influence the people around us. A kind word or cheerful attitude may help brighten someone's day.
- Laughter is worth making time for.
A good laugh can offer a welcome break from daily pressures. Finding humor in small moments can help us enjoy life more.
- A positive outlook can encourage others.
People who look for possibilities rather than only problems often inspire those around them. Encouragement can be just as contagious as complaining.
- Humor can change our perspective.
Stepping back from a frustrating situation may help us see it more clearly. Sometimes a little laughter makes a problem feel easier to face.
- Choose the influence you want to have.
We cannot control every event, but we can pay attention to how we treat others. Ask yourself whether your words and actions bring encouragement or add to someone's worries.
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Conclusion
Whether we realize it or not, our words, expressions, and attitudes can influence the people we meet each day. A smile, a laugh, or an encouraging word may seem like a small thing, but it can make a difference to someone who needs a little kindness.
That does not mean we must be happy every minute or hide our troubles. Everyone has difficult days. What matters is making an effort to bring understanding, humor, and encouragement into our relationships whenever we can.
As you go about your day, think about the kind of influence you want to have. A positive attitude is something you can share, and its effects may reach further than you know.
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