Is Stress A Killer?

Have you ever left work on Friday looking forward to a relaxing weekend, only to spend Saturday and Sunday worrying about Monday? When unfinished tasks stay on our minds, even our time away from work can feel stressful.

In this thought, Byron Pulsifer shares a simple way to put work worries aside and enjoy a well-earned break. The poem Leave Your Work Behind reminds us that rest is important, and that we don't have to spend every waking moment thinking about work.

Your work will wait until Monday, There's no need to worry your weekend away. For rest is something we all need, To find the strength that helps us succeed.— Catherine Pulsifer

Updated October 19, 2026, by Catherine Pulsifer.

Is Stress A Killer?

By Byron Pulsifer, © 2007

Is stress your Monday morning diet? For many people, Monday arrives with a long list of tasks that seems to have grown over the weekend. Instead of feeling refreshed after two days away from work, they return feeling more anxious than they did on Friday.

Why Does Stress Follow Us Home?

On Friday, you left work looking forward to a break from the pressures of the week. You planned to relax, spend time with family, or enjoy something you love. So why do those same work worries seem to grow during the weekend instead of fading away?

Work Worries Go Everywhere With Us

For far too many of us, we don't really leave work behind. Our thoughts about unfinished tasks follow us to the store, into the garden, on a walk through the park, and even onto the porch on a warm summer evening.

We keep adding to our mental to-do lists. By Monday morning, those unfinished tasks can seem even bigger, leaving us feeling stressed before the workweek has begun.

Ongoing Stress Can Affect Your Health

When stress continues without enough relief, it can affect both physical and emotional well-being. That is why finding ways to manage it matters. But how can we put work aside when we know those responsibilities will still be waiting for us on Monday?

Simply telling ourselves to stop thinking about work is not always enough. We cannot necessarily flip a switch and turn off every concern. Instead, we may need a practical way to set those thoughts aside.

A Simple Experiment

Before your weekend begins, take a few sheets of paper and a pen. Write down everything on your mind about work, including the tasks you need to finish, the calls you need to make, and the issues you need to address. Make the list as long as necessary so you don't have to keep trying to remember everything.

When your list is complete, turn it over and put it in a drawer or your briefcase. Picture those tasks safely stored away until Monday. You have not forgotten them; you have simply given yourself permission to return to them when it is time to work again.

Next, plan something enjoyable. Read the novel you have been meaning to start, spend time with your children, or return to a favorite hobby. Whether you enjoy gardening, jogging, tennis, bowling, model building, or something else entirely, choose an activity that helps you focus on the present.

Give Yourself Time To Recharge

The purpose of this exercise is to reduce the worry caused by unfinished work. Those tasks are not going to be completed while you are away, so why spend the entire weekend carrying them around in your thoughts?

Putting your list away is a small physical action that may help you mentally set those responsibilities aside. When Monday comes, you can take out the list and begin again, knowing that nothing important has been forgotten.

Don't let unfinished tasks take away every moment of your free time. Take charge of what you can, enjoy your break, and give yourself a chance to recharge.

The following poem offers a gentle reminder that the weekend is a time to enjoy life, not just another opportunity to worry about work.

Leave Your Work Behind

Poet: Catherine Pulsifer

It's Friday night, the week is done,
You've worked so hard, now have some fun.
But still your thoughts return to work,
And all the tasks that seem to lurk.

You think of Monday, what must be done,
And suddenly your worries have begun.
The weekend passes, yet you find,
Your work is always on your mind.

So take a pen and write things down,
Don't let those worries bring a frown.
Make a list of all you need to do,
Then put it away till the weekend's through.

Now take the time to rest awhile,
Enjoy your family, share a smile.
Read a book or take a walk,
Spend time with friends and simply talk.

Your work will wait until Monday,
There's no need to worry your weekend away.
For rest is something we all need,
To find the strength that helps us succeed.

So leave your worries, let them rest,
And give yourself the time that's best.
Life is more than work each day,
Make time for joy along the way.

Key Reflections In This Thought And Poem

  • Work worries can follow us home.

    Unfinished tasks may stay on our minds long after the workday ends. Recognizing this habit can help us make better use of our time away.

  • Writing things down can ease worry.

    A written list helps us remember what needs attention without constantly thinking about it. We can return to those tasks when the workweek begins.

  • Rest is important.

    Time away from work gives us an opportunity to relax and recharge. We all need moments when our responsibilities are not the center of our thoughts.

  • Make room for activities you enjoy.

    Reading, walking, hobbies, and time with loved ones can help us focus on something other than work. Small pleasures are worth making time for.

  • Take charge of what you can.

    We may not be able to remove every source of stress, but we can choose how to prepare for our time away. Setting work aside is one step toward a more enjoyable weekend.


Conclusion

Work responsibilities do not always disappear from our thoughts when Friday arrives. We may find ourselves worrying about unfinished tasks even when we are surrounded by family, enjoying a hobby, or trying to relax.

By writing those tasks down and putting the list away, we can remind ourselves that everything does not have to be handled right now. The work will still be there on Monday, but the weekend is an opportunity to enjoy the life we have outside our jobs.

Give yourself permission to rest, laugh, and spend time doing what matters to you. A little planning can help you leave your work behind and return feeling more prepared for the week ahead.